The Top 5 Mistakes to Avoid When Planning Your Elopement
The Top 5 Mistakes to Avoid When Planning Your Elopement
Elopements are intimate, romantic, and liberating, allowing couples to focus on their connection rather than the pressures of a traditional wedding. However, planning an elopement still requires care and thoughtful decision-making to ensure the day flows beautifully and aligns with your vision.
At Beaux & Arrows, we’ve guided countless couples through seamless, luxurious elopements across New England’s most breathtaking locations. To help you plan with ease and confidence, we’ve outlined the top 5 mistakes to avoid when planning your dream elopement.
1. Underestimating the Importance of Planning
One of the most common misconceptions about elopements is that they require no planning. While elopements are more relaxed than traditional weddings, they still involve key details:
Location Logistics: Securing permits, understanding accessibility, and planning around seasonal conditions.
Timing and Light: Coordinating your ceremony around golden hour (sunrise or sunset) ensures the most stunning light for photos.
Vendors: Coordinating hair and makeup, florals, officiating, and photography takes time and care.
What to Do Instead:
Work with an experienced elopement planner like Beaux & Arrows. Our all-inclusive packages take care of every detail, from logistics to vendors, ensuring your day is stress-free and seamless.
2. Choosing the Wrong Location for Your Vision
Your location sets the tone for your elopement, and choosing the wrong spot can impact both the experience and the photos. It’s easy to get drawn into a popular destination without considering your needs or preferences.
Common Pitfalls Include:
Overly crowded spots that lack intimacy.
Underestimating accessibility, particularly if hiking is involved.
Selecting a location that doesn’t align with your vision or aesthetic.
What to Do Instead:
Choose a location that matches your priorities—whether that’s seclusion, ease of access, or a dramatic landscape. At Beaux & Arrows, we scout the most breathtaking and meaningful spots in New England, guiding you to locations that align with your style and vision.
3. Not Considering the Weather
New England’s beauty comes with its unpredictable weather. Failing to plan for unexpected conditions—like wind, rain, or snow—can leave you feeling unprepared and stressed.
What to Do Instead:
Embrace the elements. Rain, mist, or snow can add drama and beauty to your photos.
Have a backup plan. Whether it’s a sheltered spot or cozy jackets, we’ll ensure you’re ready for anything.
Dress for the conditions. Layered outfits, wraps, or sturdy shoes can elevate your look while keeping you comfortable.
At Beaux & Arrows, we plan for every scenario, ensuring the weather adds to the magic rather than detracts from your day.
4. Skipping Professional Photography
Your elopement may feel fleeting, but your photos will tell the story forever. Some couples make the mistake of assuming photography isn’t essential for an elopement, only to regret not preserving their once-in-a-lifetime memories.
What to Do Instead:
Invest in professional, high-quality photography. At Beaux & Arrows, we use an editorial, fine-art approach to capture every moment, emotion, and breathtaking backdrop with care. Your love story deserves to be documented beautifully, from the big moments to the small details.
5. Forgetting to Make It Personal
The beauty of elopements lies in their freedom and intimacy. However, some couples rush through the planning process and forget to make the day theirs. Without intentional, personal touches, an elopement can feel less meaningful than it should.
What to Do Instead:
Incorporate details that reflect your love story:
Write your own vows to share heartfelt promises.
Include a meaningful ritual, like a handfasting ceremony or exchanging letters.
Bring personal items, like a family heirloom or a handwritten note for each other.
Plan an activity you love—whether that’s a sunrise hike, a seaside picnic, or dancing barefoot under the stars.
At Beaux & Arrows, we take the time to understand your story, ensuring your elopement feels intimate, authentic, and uniquely yours.
How Beaux & Arrows Ensures a Perfect Elopement
At Beaux & Arrows, we specialize in luxury, all-inclusive elopements across New England, combining thoughtful planning, breathtaking locations, and an elevated experience. Here’s what we include to make your day stress-free and unforgettable:
Location Scouting: Personalized recommendations based on your vision.
Professional Hair and Makeup: On-site styling to help you feel confident and radiant.
Full Photography Coverage: Editorial-style photography that captures your connection and the beauty of your surroundings.
Floral Design: Custom bouquets to complement your style.
Planning and Logistics: From timelines to weather plans, we handle every detail.
Personalized Ceremony: An officiated ceremony tailored to your love story.
Avoid the Stress and Focus on What Matters
Your elopement should be a day of joy, connection, and adventure—not stress. By avoiding these common mistakes and working with a team that understands the unique needs of elopements, you can focus on the moments that matter most.
Ready to Plan Your Dream Elopement?
At Beaux & Arrows, we make elopement planning effortless, luxurious, and deeply personal. Contact us today to learn more about our all-inclusive packages and let’s start crafting your perfect New England elopement. Availability is limited, so secure your date now and create a day you’ll treasure forever!
