The Art of Intimate Weddings: A Guide to Curating a Day That’s Truly Yours

In a world of grand celebrations and packed guest lists, there’s something uniquely special about intimate weddings. Stripped of unnecessary distractions, these celebrations focus on what truly matters: the love, the connection, and the start of a lifelong journey.

As a photographer and planner specializing in intimate weddings and elopements, I’ve seen how these smaller celebrations allow couples to create deeply meaningful experiences that reflect their story and values. If you’re dreaming of a wedding day that feels personal, intentional, and unforgettable, this guide is for you.

Why Choose an Intimate Wedding?

An intimate wedding offers freedom. Freedom to craft a day that’s entirely yours, unbound by the expectations of a traditional wedding. Here’s why more couples are opting for smaller, intentional celebrations:

• Meaningful Connections: With fewer guests, you’ll have time to truly connect with everyone present, ensuring your day feels personal and heartfelt.

• Focus on What Matters: Instead of managing a massive production, you can focus on the love you’re celebrating and the memories you’re creating.

• Elevated Experiences: A smaller guest list allows you to allocate your budget toward experiences and details that elevate your day, like gourmet dining, luxury photography, and custom elements.

• Stress-Free Planning: Without the complexity of a large-scale event, you can enjoy a smoother, more relaxed planning process.

Crafting Your Intimate Wedding Vision

The beauty of an intimate wedding lies in its flexibility. Whether you’re envisioning a cozy backyard ceremony, an elegant dinner party, or a breathtaking outdoor celebration, your wedding should reflect your story as a couple.

1. Choose a Venue That Speaks to You

The venue sets the tone for your day. With a smaller guest list, you can consider unique spaces that wouldn’t be practical for a larger wedding:

• Private Estates: Host your celebration in a charming New England estate or a rustic barn for a cozy, elegant vibe.

• Boutique Venues: Think intimate inns, historic homes, or art galleries that create a memorable atmosphere.

• Outdoor Settings: From secluded beaches to forest clearings and mountain peaks, nature offers some of the most stunning backdrops for your vows.

2. Create a Personalized Atmosphere

The details of your wedding should reflect who you are as a couple. Consider incorporating:

• Custom Decor: Handwritten vows, family heirlooms, and unique design elements that tell your story.

• Thoughtful Guest Experiences: Provide personalized welcome gifts, handwritten notes, or curated menus that make your guests feel special.

• Interactive Moments: Include elements like wine or whiskey tastings, intimate fireside chats, or group activities that bring everyone closer together.

3. Plan an Unforgettable Ceremony

Your ceremony is the heart of your day. Without the constraints of tradition, you have the freedom to make it truly personal:

• Unique Locations: Exchange vows in a place that’s meaningful to you, whether it’s the spot where you met or a destination you’ve always dreamed of visiting.

• Custom Ceremonies: With Jacob Stevenson as your officiant, we’ll create a ceremony that feels deeply personal, weaving your story, values, and future dreams into every word.

Capturing the Essence of Your Day

As a photographer specializing in intimate weddings, I understand the importance of preserving every moment and emotion. My approach blends journalistic storytelling with editorial artistry, ensuring that your images feel authentic, beautiful, and timeless.

With smaller celebrations, I’m able to capture the subtleties that make your day unique—the shared laughter, the quiet glances, and the intimate connections that might go unnoticed in a larger setting.

All-Inclusive Intimate Wedding Services

Planning a wedding, no matter the size, can feel overwhelming. That’s why I offer all-inclusive services designed to simplify the process and elevate your experience. Here’s what’s included:

• Tailored Photography Coverage: From getting ready to the final toast, I’ll document your day with care and precision.

• Planning & Coordination: I’ll handle everything from crafting your timeline to ensuring every detail is executed flawlessly.

• Location Scouting: Whether you’re looking for a hidden gem or a well-loved landmark, I’ll find the perfect setting for your celebration.

• Custom Floral Design: I create handcrafted, locally sourced bouquets and arrangements that reflect your style and enhance your day.

• Personalized Officiating: Jacob will craft and deliver a heartfelt ceremony tailored to your love story.

Inspiration for Your Intimate Wedding

The Coastal Charm of Maine

Say your vows with the ocean as your witness. Maine’s rocky cliffs, historic lighthouses, and secluded beaches create a setting that feels both romantic and dramatic.

The Serenity of New Hampshire’s Mountains

For couples who love adventure, the White Mountains offer sweeping vistas, serene trails, and golden-hour light that feels like magic.

The Timeless Elegance of Vermont

Celebrate surrounded by rolling hills, charming farms, and vibrant foliage. Vermont’s natural beauty is perfect for a cozy and sophisticated wedding.

Why Choose Beaux & Arrows for Your Intimate Wedding?

At Beaux & Arrows, I bring a blend of artistry, intention, and experience to every celebration. With a background in behavioral psychology, creative direction, and logistics, I offer more than just photography—I provide guidance, care, and support every step of the way. Together with Jacob, we create an experience that’s seamless, elevated, and deeply personal.

When you choose Beaux & Arrows, you’re choosing:

• Timeless Photography: Your images will tell the story of your day with elegance and emotion.

• Stress-Free Planning: From big-picture ideas to the smallest details, I handle it all so you can focus on being present.

• Heartfelt Connection: I take the time to understand your vision, ensuring every element reflects who you are.

Let’s Create Something Extraordinary

Your wedding day is an opportunity to celebrate your love in a way that feels meaningful and authentic. Whether you’re planning a cozy gathering with your closest friends or an adventurous ceremony in the great outdoors, I’m here to help you bring your vision to life.

Contact me today to start planning your intimate wedding, and let’s create a celebration that’s as unforgettable as your love story.